想开点儿 don't be so sad
true story 真实故事
one time i ran into a friend in her late 20's in the street and we started talking . she mentioned a common friend we had , and then went on to say what sounded like " xxx is sad im getting married ." i said , " really , i didn't know you're getting married ." she went on , " no , you misunderstand . xxx said I'm getting married ."
一次，我在街上碰到一位快30岁的朋友，我们聊了会儿。她提到了我们的一位朋友，然后说些听起来像“xxx is sad I'm getting married (某某听到我要结婚的事很难过)。”之关的话。我说：“really , i didn't know you're getting married (真的，我不知道你结婚了)。”她继续说：“no , you misunderstand , xxx said I'm getting married (不，你理解错了，某某说他自己要结婚)。”
the misunderstanding here took place because of poor pronunciation.make sure you don't make the same mistake:
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