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双语:同居前 请想清楚这7件事

2015-06-18    来源:网络    【      美国外教 在线口语培训

双语:同居前 请想清楚这7件事

1. Younger couples who move in together fast are much more likely to break up.
年轻夫妇很快在一起更有可能分手。

Depressing news for folks who like to take things fast: Couples who move in together before the age of 23 generally don't have a promising future and that doesn't taper off until you're 30. The longer a couple waits to move in together, the more likely it'll work long-term and that's what everyone wants, right? Because, unfortunately, dividing up your broken dreams is not the most fun.
令人沮丧的消息是对那些喜欢很快把事情告诉别人的人:在23岁之前就住在一起的夫妻通常没有发展前景,逐渐停止直到你30岁。一对等待将在一起的时间越长,越有可能会长期在一起,这是每个人都想要,对吗?不幸的是,因为让你的梦破碎并不是最有趣。

2. You want to be fully committed before learning the other person's gross habits.
学习对方的习惯前你想要全心投入。

If bathroom sink beard stubble and burping the alphabet after a few beers are things you're not prepared to live with, you're not ready to move in together. (And let's not even talk about your own trash TV addition and couch cushion candy bar stashes, you little monster.)
如果浴室有水槽有胡子和几杯啤酒后打嗝的这些事情你不准备住在一起,你不愿意搬到一起。(甚至我们不要谈论你自己的垃圾电视沙和沙发垫里像小怪物的糖果池。)

3. You don't have to talk about the Huge Important Stuff just yet.
你不必现在谈论重大事情。

And I'm not just talking about where's your favorite place to get Thai delivery — although that's very important, too! — I'm talking the biggies like kids and money. If you're not willing to share bank balances, you're not ready to have both your names on a lease. Which is good to keep in mind, because...
我不只是谈论你最喜欢的地方是泰国交付——尽管这是非常重要的,也是!——我说的是像孩子和金钱这些重要的事情。如果你不愿意分享银行余额,你还没准备好在租赁上写你的名字。请记住这是好事,因为…

4. Discussing things like how you'll split the bills and who will do what around the house are some serious work.
讨论你会如何平分账单和谁做家务是一些严肃的工作。

Talking about money is hard even in the most solid of relationships and probably not something you want to tackle in the first couple of months. That time is for being goo-goo ga-ga for each other — I'm talking puppy dog kisses and boxes of chocolates the size of large land mammals. Enjoy all that mushy gushy stuff first without figuring out who is in charge of paying the electricity bill.
谈钱是很困难的,即使在最坚实的关系中,可能不是你想要解决的在前两个月。对彼此的时间是被爱慕的嘎嘎——我说的小狗狗的吻和一盒盒巧克力,大型陆地哺乳动物的大小。享受所有模糊的感情在没有弄没有弄清楚是谁负责支付电费时。


5. You have your own space while you're figuring out how to communicate best.
你有你自己的空间在你弄清楚如何最好的交流后。

Sure, you can always run out and slam the door after an argument over who last scrubbed the toilet, but you still have to return to that person if you don't want to sleep on a dog bed in an alley. Learning how to properly communicate can take some time and it's a lot harder to do that when you're constantly in each other's business. Waiting a little gives you guys time to figure out how to navigate the bigger issues and not sweat the small stuff before you ramp everything up 1,000 percent by constantly being in each other's faces.
当然,为 擦洗厕所争吵之后你是可以摔门跑出去,但你仍然要回到那个人身边,如果你不想睡在小巷里的狗床上。学习如何正确地沟通会花一些时间和有很多困难,当你不断地在询问彼此的业务时。等待一点给你们彼此时间找出如何解决更大的问题,而不是关注鸡毛蒜皮的小事之前1000%不断地在乎面子。

6. You can save up money for a nice place.
你可以为一个好地方攒钱。

Just think about it! If you guys start saving money six months into your relationship with the goal of moving in at one year, you'll have a much more lovely space than if you scrape together your measly pennies now and move into the first garbage hole you can afford. Just visualize it: an en suite washer/dryer! A state-of-the-art dishwasher! A backyard for dogs! Dare to dream, my friends.
想想吧!如果你们开始六个月存钱为一年后搬到一起的目标,你就会拥有一个更可爱的空间如果你现在积攒你的少得可怜的便士,和搬进第一个你能负担得起的垃圾洞。只是想象:一个逐次洗衣机/烘干机!最先进的洗碗机!给狗一个后院!敢于梦想,我的朋友。

7. Your alone time rules.
你独处的时间规定。

You know how you love to pop in a Jillian Michaels tape, strip down to nothing but your sports bra and a pair of sweat pants and then sweat all over the place while yelling at the TV, "Bring it, Jillian!"? Well, that's a bit more embarrassing whey your partner is trying to meditate on the other side of the room. While you can, you should revel in your own space and how good it feels to paint your toe nails in bed while eating extra-crumbly crackers and watching a Ru Paul's Drag Race at top volume.
你知道你喜欢流行吉利安迈克尔带,只带下来你的运动胸罩和一条长运动裤,然后汗出的到处都是,而电视大喊大叫,“把它带上,吉利安!”?嗯,有点尴尬的乳清,伴侣试图冥想在房间的另一边。虽然您可以,你应该陶醉在自己的空间, 在床上擦指甲油当吃其他饼干和看俄文保罗的阻力竞赛卷。


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