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双语:一个好的男朋友 肯定有这四个特点

2015-12-04    来源:普特英语听力    【      美国外教 在线口语培训

双语:一个好的男朋友 肯定有这四个特点

You prize your independence. You are the one who can handle your job challenges, problems with coworkers and family issues without running for help. When it comes to your boyfriend, you have some specific things in mind which will fit in with your lifestyle. Here is a list of things you are looking for. These are not set in stone, just a set of guidelines. If your boyfriend fails to meet one or two of these criteria, don’t kick him out. After all, one of your great qualities as an independent woman is your talent for flexibility, compromise and problem solving! You might have to do some work or if you think it is not worth it, you might move on.

你因独立自豪。你能不需要他人的帮助,接受工作的挑战,处理同事和家里的问题。但当谈论到你的男朋友时,你脑海中有一些特别的要求,这些要求需要符合你的生活方式。以下这些要求可能就是你需要的。但这些要求不是死规定,仅仅是一个意见指导。如果你的男朋友没有达到其中一两项,甚至是三项,也不要朝他发火。毕竟,作为一个独立的女人,你优秀的品德中具备灵活性,退让和解决问题的能力。有些事可能是你不得不做的,或者当你认为你不值得做某件事的时候,你可以抽身而去。
 
1. He gives you your personal space
1.他能给你私人空间
You love having a little time, space, and some oxygen for yourself. He knows that and loves his private space too. There are no problems if you are away for a weekend or out with the girls. He does not cling and he does not pester you with texts and phone calls while you are enjoying yourself. It is, of course reciprocal because you do not believe in 24/7 surveillance either. But you love those funny messages at unexpected times.
你喜欢有一点自己的私人空间。他不仅能明白你的想法,还希望他也有属于自己的空间。即便是你会离开一周或者和闺蜜外出,他也不会计较。当你在享受自己的时光时,他不会黏你,也不会不停的给你发短信打电话。
 
2. He’s there when you need him
2.当你需要的时候 有他在
You know the type of guy who wants to become your second dad and is overprotective. No thanks! You have learned from early on to be self-sufficient, capable and strong. You want him there though when you need support, encouragement, and advice and he always is.
你清楚什么样的男人想变成你的第二个父亲,照顾保护你。不必说感谢!早在你学会自给自足和变强大的时候,你就明白了自己的标准。你希望在你需要支持鼓励和得到建议的时候,他都能在你身边。
 
You know that there is a certain ambiguity in your independence. You always want to show your strength and capabilities but at the same time you feel the need to be cared for emotionally and socially. You can list countless examples when he has taken care of you in moments of doubt, sadness, and even exhaustion.
你知道以上所说的在你需要依赖的时候是一个模糊的标准。你总是想展示自己的强大和力量,但同时,你也觉得在情感和社会环境中,你需要被照顾。你可以列出许多在你产生怀疑,难过,甚至是精疲力尽的时,他细心照顾你的例子。
 
3. He knows the ups and downs of living together
3.他了解住在一起的起伏情绪
Are you going to lose some of your independence if you start living together? He probably has been through that himself. Maybe it was a small apartment and the pressure of being together for much of the time ruined the last relationship. He is prepared to examine with you all the pros and cons. He is aware, like you are, of the risks. Most research now indicates that cohabiting or marriage is not the problem. It is the age of the partners and their maturity which really makes the difference. You both know the dangers of mindlessly drifting into cohabitation.
如果你们开始住一起的时候,你是否将会失去一些自由?他也可能完全展现自己。可能你们在一个小公寓里,在最亲密的关系里消耗很多时间,从而带来压力。他和你都共同意识到这样很违心。现在很多调查显示,同居生活或者婚姻生活都不是问题。男女双方之间的年龄和成熟度会让上述两者迥然不同。你们都明白不认真经营同居生活的危险。
 
4. He does not feel threatened
4.他不会感到有威胁。
You know that some men actually feel a little intimidated or even threatened by an independent woman. They may even feel less masculine when confronted with the woman’s autonomy. But, you know that your boyfriend does not expect you be more clingy and less independent once you become a couple. Your relationship is not about giving up what you have fought for and there is no question of being conquered.
你要知道,实际上一些男人对一个独立的女人会感到一些惧怕甚至是感到威胁。阿门在面对女权主义时,甚至会感到自己少些男子气概。但是,你要知道你的男朋友在你们成为夫妻后不希望你不那么粘人,有些独立。你们之间的关系不是要放弃你所奋斗的东西,也不是要为对方所征服的问题。
 
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