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大学恋爱必修课:一个适合你的优质女朋友会有哪些特点

2015-09-01    来源:普特英语听力    【      美国外教 在线口语培训

大学恋爱必修课:一个适合你的优质女朋友会有哪些特点

开篇寄语:大学,除了学习之外,爱情其实也算是人生的一场必修课。在恋爱中,两个人学会包容,学会体谅,学会换位思考,也学会聚散离别……人生,在你18岁的年华里,刚刚开始,树立正确的恋爱观,每一种缘分与经历,都用真心体会和感悟,才能得以最健康的成长。那么一个真正适合你的伴侣应该是什么样的呢?先来看看适合你的女朋友,应该有哪些特点呢?

If you’re dating a girl, check off these 15 signs that you have a great girlfriend. If you find a girl who fits this description, hold onto her!
如果你在和一个女孩约会,那么来看看她是否符合这十五个完美女友的标准。如果你发现一个女孩完全符合以下描述,那么千万别错过她!


1. She likes the same things.
1.她与你有相同的喜好

You both like going to the movies, swimming, and you have pretty similar views on which people should be locked up. Not that you agree on everything, of course, but at least you are on the same track 90% of the time.
你们都喜欢去看电影,游泳,你们对大家禁忌的话题都持有相同的观点。当然,不是说你们对每一件事都意见相同,但是至少你们有90%的时候都是观点一致的。

2. She never interferes with your work.
2.她从不打扰你的工作

Yoko Ono (John Lennon’s second wife) once remarked in an interview, “In a way both John and I ruined our careers by getting together.”  However, the break up of The Beatles was a complex and long drawn out affair.
小野洋子(Yoko Ono)(约翰·列侬John Lennon的第二任妻子)曾经在一次采访中说到:“过分腻在一起,毁掉了我约翰和我的事业。”不过,披头士乐队的解散的原因复杂。

3. She tells you why she is in a bad mood.
3.她会明确告诉你她为何心情不好。

Nobody can be a in a good mood all the time. She tells you why something is wrong, what happened at work to make her mad and why she is in a foul temper. Some people call that real communication.
没有人能够一直拥有好心情。她告诉你为什么有些事是错的,她在工作中遇到了什么不开心的事,为什么她纠结在坏心情中。有人认为这种情绪倾述的做法叫做真正意义上的沟通。

4. She loves you for who you are, not for what you do.
4.她喜欢你是因为你这个人,而不是因为你做了什么。

Lots of famous people attract others because of their stardom. Tim Tebow makes it very clear that he wants a kind and sweet girl who is not dazzled by his fame.
有很多名人能够吸引别人是因为自己的明星身份。提姆·提博(Tim Tebow)就非常清楚,自己想找一位性情温柔甜美可爱,不被自己的名声所诱惑的女孩。

5. She is not trying to change you.
5.她没有尝试改变你。

You know the types who want to mold you into Mr. Perfect. There may be a few things that need fixing, but a great girlfriend adjusts to imperfections and can accept the fact that your hair style is a little bit different or that your weight is over or under a certain limit.
你知道有类型人是想把你变成完美先生的。这样就会让有些事发生改变,但是一个好的女朋友会去适应你的不完美,能够接受你与众不同的发型,或者超重,不达标的身材。

6. She has no problems with her own body image.
6.她没有对自己的身材过分讲究。

She is not trying to change her body all the time. She is not obsessed with dieting or going to the gym. She is perfectly at ease with herself.
她没有一直减肥。她也没有沉溺于节食和健身。她对自己的身材彻底的顺其自然。

7. She is not the owner of your free time.
7.她不会占据你所有的自由时间。

Basically, she does not complain that you have sixty dozen things on your to do list. She allows you time for yourself without being clingy or complaining.
一般来说,她不会抱怨你在自己的计划清单里有60多件事要做。她会给你属于自己的时间,不粘人也不抱怨。

8. She shares your values.
8.她能与你分享共同的价值观。

You both “click” on how people should be treated. You have definite views on what education is and how important honesty is. Above all, you have very clear ideas on money and how it should be spent. It doesn’t matter whether you are a cheapskate or a big spender, as long as you are both in the same category!
你们的人生有相同的价值观。你对教育有明确的态度,也深知诚实的重要的。总的来说,你对理财有想法,也知道每一笔钱该怎么花。不管你是吝啬鬼还是挥金如土的人,只要你们都有共同的观念即可。

9. She is open with you.
9.她对你敞开心扉。

You know about her childhood and the problems she had because she has talked openly about these things. You know all about her worries and her little obsessions. You know about them because she wants a friend who loves her not only for all her brilliant qualities but her defects as well.
你知道她的童年经历,她遇到过的困难,因为她曾经敞开心扉的跟你诉说过。你知道她所有的担忧,也明白她心中的小偏执。你能知道这些事,是因为她想要你像朋友一样爱她,爱她各种闪光点,也爱她的缺点。

10. She is a good listener.
10.她是一个好的倾听者。

She wants to know what went wrong with that project at work or why you got mad with your boss. She is not afraid to ask for details. Her questions are focused on where you are coming from. She offers advice when asked for it.
她想知道一项工作计划为何出错,你为何被你老板折磨得抓狂。她不担心询问细节。她的问题集中在你是怎么想的出发点上,她为你出谋划策,提供建议。

11. She is such fun to be with.
11.与她在一起充满乐趣。

You laugh at the same things. You enjoy lots of things together. You appreciate each others’ silly jokes, cartoon characters, stupid songs and crazy things on Facebook.
你们为同一件事发笑。你们一起欣赏许多事物。你们互相分享对方Facebook上白痴的笑话,搞笑的卡通人物,难听的歌曲,疯狂的故事。

12. She loves hanging out with your friends and family.
12.她喜爱和你的朋友家人相处。

You never have a problem when you want to do things with your family or her or group of friends. She fits in with your family so easily. There is no jealousy or undercurrents which could become toxic.
你从来没有这样的烦恼:你要做某些事的时候,纠结到底是和家人和朋友还是和她完成。她能轻松适应和你的家人相处。她心中没有嫉妒也没有日后爆发的暗涌情绪。

13. She never asks for advice about clothes.
13.她从来不问你关于穿衣服的建议

She never asks you to help her choose clothes and would never dream of asking you whether a certain color suits her. She does not need that kind of advice because she is perfectly confident and poised.
她从来不要求你帮助她选择穿什么衣服,也不会带着幻想来问你这套衣服是否适合她。她根本就不需要这样的建议,因为她对穿衣这类型的事情有足够的自信,保持自我风格。

14. She knows how to surprise you.
14.她知道怎么给你惊喜

She knows how to spring a surprise on you. That can be anything from a different outing, a sudden change of plans or anything else which breaks the routine. Too much routine turns into boredom.
她知道如何给你制造惊喜。惊喜可能是一次不同寻常的外出旅游,一项突然改变的计划,或者任何一种线路的改变。不过太多路线变化会带来烦躁的情绪。

15. She never nags you.
15.她从来不唠叨你。

She is the one who can let the small things go so that you can feel perfectly at ease in her company. You are both relieved that there is no nit-picking or nagging. You have both moved on and upgraded. You are now on a journey of personal growth and mutual self improvement.
她能忽略那些无关紧要的小事,让你在她的陪伴里感觉到轻松。你们都能感觉释放自己,没有过分挑剔和唠叨。你们彼此都能感动对方,也能提升自己。有了这样的感觉,说明你们现在步入了个人成长和共同提升的旅程里。

This is a perfect description of your great girlfriend, isn’t it? Or is it all too good to be true? If it is, then you might have to rethink what you are really looking for in a great girlfriend.
以上就是完美女友的特点。是不是太过完美而难以实现呢?如果真的是这样,那么你可能要重新思考一下,你真正想找的好女友是什么样的。

(本双语文章的中文翻译微普特英语听力网原创内容,转载请注明出处。中文翻译仅代表译者个人观点,仅供参考。如有不妥之处,欢迎指正。)



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