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做对这6件事,让他每天爱你多一点

2017-07-14    来源:普特英语听力    【      美国外教 在线口语培训

 恋爱中的女生总是希望他能够爱自己多一点,再多一点,那么,怎样才能做到这一点呢?

做对这6件事

1. Don't try to change him.
不要试着去改变他
 
As frustrating as it sometimes can be, you and I both know we can't really change a man, hey will only really change if they want to make a change. A man truly accepts a woman when he feels that she genuinely accepts him for who he is. There is so much power behind a woman who inspires her man to become a better version of himself without making him feel that he needs to change.
有时候想想也是很沮丧,我们都知道自己没办法真正改变一个男人,除非是他自己发自内心想做出改变。只有当他觉得你完全接受了他之后,他才会完全接受你。一个真正强大的女人,不会让对方觉得自己需要改变,却能够鼓舞他想成为更好的自己。
 
2. He doesn't need to like the same things you do.
他没必要跟你喜欢一样的东西
 
The two of you aren't going to always enjoy doing the same things. He may like paintballing with the guys, which let's be honest, you'd probably never do. And then you enjoy painting classes, which is something that pains him to even think about doing. You should never make him feel guilty for not enjoying the same things you like. Just because he doesn't want to engage in your hobbies and interests doesn't mean he lacks love and respect for you.
你俩不可能总是喜欢同样的东西。他可能喜欢跟哥们玩彩蛋游戏,老实说,你可能永远不会喜欢。你可能喜欢画画,但他甚至想都不会想去做这个。即便他喜欢的跟你不一样,也不要让他感觉到愧疚。他不想加入你的兴趣爱好并不意味着他就不爱你、不尊重你。
 
3. Don't ask him to give up his passions.
别要求他放弃爱好
 
Men usually have something that they have a passion for. For example, they may love taking apart and building cars. It may be part of their identity and without it, they feel lost. Never ask the man you love to give something like that up or make him feel guilty for it so he spends more time with you. You're all smart women, and you know by doing this it will only make him miserable.
男人总是有自己的一些小爱好,比如,他们喜欢拆汽车、修汽车什么的。这可能就是构成他身份认同的一部分,如果不做这些,他可能会觉得怅然若失。永远不要要求他们放弃这些,也不要让他觉得没有把时间花在与你相处上而感到愧疚。各位姐妹这么聪明,当然知道这样做只会让对方痛苦。
 
4. Don't make him feel obligated to take care of you.
不要让他觉得照顾你就是义务
 
Of course you want a man who is going to make you a priority, keep you safe, and take care of you. We all want that. Sometimes we fall into this pattern of thinking where we demand our men to cater to our every single need. It may sound a little harsh, but he is not obligated to look after you; he can only choose to.
我们当然都想要一个事事以自己为先,保护自己,照顾自己的男人。但当我们陷入这样的思维模式后,会忍不住要求对方迎合自己每一个细小的要求。听起来有点逆耳,但对方没有义务照顾你,这是他的选择。
 
5. Don't expect him to not take notice of other women.
别指望他完全不看其他女人
 
You can't expect him to not look at another beautiful woman, just like you and I can't ignore when we see a really good looking guy. It is human nature to appreciate other attractive people. I'm not talking about allowing him to openly flirt with others in front of you because that is disrespectful. Try to understand that this is normal and accept it as calmly as you can.
我们看到帅哥都忍不住多看俩眼,那他们看到像我们一样漂亮的小仙女不也得多瞄几眼啊。欣赏有魅力的人是我们人类的天性。不过这里并不是指他可以当着你的面跟其他女的眉来眼去打情骂俏,这种行为就是完全对你的不尊重了。试着理解一下,看几眼异性是很正常的行为,我们不也是如此吗,淡定,淡定。
 
6. Trust him.
信任他
 
We are pretty intuitive creatures and we know when something just isn't right. However, sometimes we can be a little crazy and make up scenarios in our head off of something as small as an innocent text message from a female co-worker. What quality of a relationship do you really have if you don't have a solid foundation of trust to build off of? If you can't trust him, you will never feel secure.
当事情不对劲的时候,我(nv)们(ren)的直觉往往会告诉我们。然而,我们有时候也完全没必要斤斤计较,看到一条他女同事的短信,就开始脑补一整个出轨戏码。如果没有信任的坚实基础,那你们的感情又能好到哪里去呢?如果你没办法相信他,那你也永远没办法得到安全感。
 
经营一段感情是很辛苦的一件事,有时你会觉得精疲力竭、懊恼沮丧,但如果彼此依然还喜欢对方,就不应该轻易放手,而是努力走下去。
 
大家有什么好的经营感情的方法,欢迎留言分享。


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