他其实没那么喜欢你 Part 19
He’s Just Not That Into You
英语原版小说《他其实没那么喜欢你》（原名:He’s Just Not That Into You),主要讲述几对友人看似错综复杂其实很普遍的爱情故事，故事摒弃了以往美剧排列组合的方式，而是分成不同角度，去看每一段独立的爱情，最终让人去回望自己身边或者亲身经历的感情。
The "Maybe We're Just Different" Excuse
I live with my boyfriend who doesn't like to talk on the phone.
So when he goes out of town, he won't call me—even to let me know that he got there safely.
He just won't call me. He goes out of town fairly often for business.
We fight about it all the time. Sometimes I think that our styles are just different, and I'm going to have to learn how to compromise.
But then I think that if you're into someone, you would want to call them and talk to them while you're away from them. Am I crazy?
Dear Not Crazy,
Unless you are dating a spy, this behavior is unwarranted.
I travel for a living and find that I call my lady three or four times a day.
However, sometimes because of time differences we don't connect.
But I will, and she will, always leave a message.
I have to say, as a guy I never liked being told to call, which my wife really never does, and that's why I call her as often as I do.
We have no rules about calling, but we like and love each other to the degree that we want to talk daily, if not hourly.
Listen, I do think space in a relationship is good. Missing someone is a sign of a healthy relationship.
Not respecting your need to have some form of connection with him while he's away is not.
Regardless of his dislike for talking on the phone, he should respect and care for you enough to call you, if only because he knows that it will make you happy.
Gotta make a call, Greg
Yes, it seems like it's just a machine that transmits voice waves over wires and comes indifferent styles, like cordless, cellular, hand held, and rotary, but the truth is, the phone has officially reached a new high in relationship symbolism.
Is a phone call just a phone call, or is it really the almighty representation of how much he really cares about you?
Probably somewhere in the middle. And a good man will know that and use this handy telecommunication device accordingly.
E-mails need not apply.