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He’s Just Not That Into You
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The "But He's Very Important" Excuse
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You're dumb. A guy who I'm going out with (who I asked out, Greg, by the way) is totally important and totally busy.
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He's a music video director and travels and has long shoots and lots and lots of responsibilities.
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Sometimes when he's working, I don't hear from him for days and days.
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He's really busy, Greg! Some guys are just really, really busy! Don't you ever have really, really busy days?
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I've learned to live with it and not give him any shit, because I know that's the price I pay forgoing out with someone really successful and hot and busy.
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Why are you telling these women to be so needy? !
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Good to hear from you again. Well, not really.
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Listen, Nikki. Really busy is another way to say "just not that into you."
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Totally important is another way to say, "you're unimportant."
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How great that you've “landed” someone that even you think is out of your league.
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Too busy and important to ask you out or call you—what a catch.
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Congratulations on your quasi-relationship!
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It must feel amazing to know that you've been programmed into the super hot and important busy guy's cell phone, even if he never uses it to call you.
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You must be the envy of every woman he's really dating.
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Annoyed, Greg
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I'm about to make a wild, extreme, and severe relationship rule: The word "busy" is a load of crap and is most often used by assholes.
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The word "busy" is the relationship Weapon of Mass Destruction.
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It seems like a good excuse, but in fact, in every silo you uncover, all you're going to find is a man who didn't care enough to call.
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Remember: Men are never too busy to get what they want.
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