他其实没那么喜欢你 Part 21
He’s Just Not That Into You
英语原版小说《他其实没那么喜欢你》（原名:He’s Just Not That Into You),主要讲述几对友人看似错综复杂其实很普遍的爱情故事，故事摒弃了以往美剧排列组合的方式，而是分成不同角度，去看每一段独立的爱情，最终让人去回望自己身边或者亲身经历的感情。
It's So Simple
Sadly, I can't be with you ladies all the time, fending off all the bad excuses, and thereby, bad men that come your way.
But what I can do is paint you a picture of what you'll never see when you're with a guy who's really into you: You'll never see you staring maniacally at your phone, willing it to ring.
You'll never see you ruining an evening with friends because you're calling for your messages every fifteen seconds.
You'll never see you hating yourself for calling him when you know you shouldn't have.
What you will see is you being treated so well that no phone antics will be necessary. You'll be too busy being adored.
Here's Why This One is Hard, by Liz
We're smart. We get it. We know guys should be attentive and considerate and thoughtful.
I mean, for God's sake, we're not idiots.
We know that they should call us when they say they're going to and let us know that they're thinking about us. Duh.
But somehow, just when I think I have that lesson perfectly drummed into that thick skull of mine, I meet the one guy who really does have the perfect excuse for being a flake.
His family really is falling apart and he's the one that has to take care of them all.
He really is moving and didn't know how difficult it was going to be.
He really does have that big case at work and can't be around for a while, but he really does—really, really—like me.
And I like him so damn much that I'm willing to be patient and cut him some slack and see how it all turns out.
I know intellectually what I'm supposed to be getting from a relationship.
I'm writing a damn book about it.
But when faced with being offered less than that (sometimes a lot less than that) , it's hard to know exactly when to cut loose and move on.
He forgets to call me one night—am I supposed to just dump him?
He forgets to call me three times—is that when I dump him?
It's not easy to find someone you like and are excited about.