他其实没那么喜欢你 Part 22
He’s Just Not That Into You
英语原版小说《他其实没那么喜欢你》（原名:He’s Just Not That Into You),主要讲述几对友人看似错综复杂其实很普遍的爱情故事，故事摒弃了以往美剧排列组合的方式，而是分成不同角度，去看每一段独立的爱情，最终让人去回望自己身边或者亲身经历的感情。
And you always want to believe that the men you do meet are honest and kind and have your best interests at heart.
And when you see the first glimmer of potentially bad behavior, you first hope more than anything that it's not what you think.
And you want to make sure you don't overreact,punishing him unjustly for some other guys' mistakes.
It's a very complicated and tricky world we live in when we choose to date, and I can't keep calling Greg all the time and asking him what I should do.
So right now I'm just trying to notice when a guy's behavior starts making me feel bad about myself—when I start feeling like he's making me suffer.
A little pang of disappointment because he didn't call when he said he would?
Well, that's okay; we'll see how it goes.
A constant state of uneasiness because he's completely unreliable? That's bad.
Tears? Really bad.
Meeting someone you like and dating him is supposed to make you feel better, not worse.
That's always a good rule to live by, no matter what the special circumstances (i. e. , excuses)are.
It's not easy. But let's try to remember that the next incredible guy we meet with the really good excuse is just another guy who's hurting our feelings.
This is What It Should Look Like, by Liz
When I was working with Greg on this book in New York, I noticed that Greg would often call his wife just to tell her that he couldn't really talk to her right then, but he was thinking of her and would call later.
It didn't look like the most difficult thing in the world, but it sure seemed nice.
Greg, I Get It! by Traci, Age 25
Greg, I get it! I had two dates with a guy. On the second date we slept together.
He said he would call me the next day (Tuesday) and he didn't call me until the weekend.
When he called, I told him that it was too late.
He was stunned, but really, I don't have time for that shit.
It was the first time I had ever done anything like that and it felt great!
IF YOU DON'T BELIEVE GREG
100% of men polled said they've never been too busy to call a woman they were really into.
As one fine man said, “A man has got to have his priorities.”