他其实没那么喜欢你 Part 27
He’s Just Not That Into You
英语原版小说《他其实没那么喜欢你》（原名:He’s Just Not That Into You),主要讲述几对友人看似错综复杂其实很普遍的爱情故事，故事摒弃了以往美剧排列组合的方式，而是分成不同角度，去看每一段独立的爱情，最终让人去回望自己身边或者亲身经历的感情。
The "It's Better Than Nothing" Excuse
I've been dating a guy for six months. We see each other about every two weeks.
We have a great time, we have sex, it's all really nice.
I thought if I just let things develop, we would start to see each other more often.
But instead, it's staying in this every-two-weeks situation.
I really like him, so I still feel like it's better than nothing.
And you never know, things can change at any time.
I know he's really busy, and maybe this is the most time he can dedicate to a relationship right now.
So maybe I should actually feel honored that he's able to give me as much time as he does, and he might actually really like me. No?
Dear Better Than Nothing,
Really? Is better than nothing what we're going for now?
I was hoping for at least a lot better than nothing. Or perhaps even something.
Have you lost your marbles? Why should you feel honored for getting scraps of his time?
Just because he's busy doesn't make him more valuable. "Busy" does not mean "better."
In my book, any guy who can wait two weeks to see you, is just not that into you.
Oh, how easy it is for you all to forget what it's about!
Let me remind you: It's about the guy who wants you, calls you, makes you feel sexy and desired fully.
He wants to see you more and more often because every time he sees you, he likes and then loves you more and more. I know.
Every two weeks, once a month, seeing someone, having a little love and affection may help you get through the day or the week or the month—but will it help you get through a lifetime?