他其实没那么喜欢你 Part 32
He’s Just Not That Into You
英语原版小说《他其实没那么喜欢你》（原名:He’s Just Not That Into You),主要讲述几对友人看似错综复杂其实很普遍的爱情故事，故事摒弃了以往美剧排列组合的方式，而是分成不同角度，去看每一段独立的爱情，最终让人去回望自己身边或者亲身经历的感情。
He's Just Not That Into You If He's Not Having Sex with You
When Men Like You, They Want to Touch You,Always
Ladies, you are going to meet, and have already met,many, many men in the years that constitute your dating lifespan.
And I hate to tell you this, but some of these men will simply not be attracted to you.
I know you're hot, but that's just the way it is. (Even Cindy Crawford has dudes that go, "I don't know what the big deal is all about." )
And every single one of these men that are not attracted to you will never ever tell you that.
Oh, the things they'll say...they're scared, hurt, tired, injured, sick, scared (again) .
But the truth is simple, brutal, and clear as a bell: He's not attracted to you and doesn't want to hurt your feelings.
If he were into you, he would be having a hard time keeping his paws off you.
Oh the simplicity of it all! If a man is not trying to undress you, he's not into you.
The "He's Afraid to Get Hurt Again" Excuse
I had a boyfriend ten years ago.
I bumped into him on the street recently, after not having seen him for many years, and we start "dating" again, even though it is unclear if that's exactly what's going on.
He won't kiss me or make a pass at me.
But, Greg, we're going salsa dancing, we're going bar hopping, we're staying out late, talking and dancing and laughing and flirting.
He keeps telling me how great I look, how great it is to see me.
One night he even told me he loved me and hoped I'd always be in his life.
My friends all say he's just afraid to get hurt again and I should stick this one out.
He's a great guy. Doesn't he seem really into me, but he's scared?
Salsa dancing, Greg, till four in the morning.
Salsa dancing. Please advise.