他其实没那么喜欢你 Part 38
He’s Just Not That Into You
英语原版小说《他其实没那么喜欢你》（原名:He’s Just Not That Into You),主要讲述几对友人看似错综复杂其实很普遍的爱情故事，故事摒弃了以往美剧排列组合的方式，而是分成不同角度，去看每一段独立的爱情，最终让人去回望自己身边或者亲身经历的感情。
But I'm not that person. I'm the type of person who looks at them and says, “Damn. That's what I want.”
It's really a bitch. That means I have to be the type of girl who is going to ask the guys the mortifying questions, and worse, who might break up with a really great guy if he just doesn't want to have sex with me enough or at all.
But all I can say is that I suffer from the affliction of believing I can have a wonderful man love me and be wildly attracted to me.
I also believe that when that wanes, as it naturally will, we can both make it a priority to try to stay wildly attracted to each other.
If you suffer from that affliction as well, you better pull the pillow out from under Mr. Sleepover and take away his cookies and milk.
We deserve more than a slumber party.
This is What It Should Look Like, by Greg
Don't ask me how I know, because I don't want to tell you, but I can assure you that my parents, who are in their seventies, after children, illnesses, aging, stressful jobs, and daily annoyances (read: life) , are still having sex.
If my parents can do it, so can you and your boyfriend.
Greg, I Get It! by Dorrie, Age 32
I was dating a guy I met on a job.
We had to spend a lot of time together and it was really romantic getting to know him and working with him.
After the job ended, we'd still get together and go on dates and kiss good night.
This went on for two months. He would never take it any farther.
But in the meantime I met his family, went to big functions with him, made plans with him.
It was like we were seriously dating, but without the sex.
I knew he hadn't been in a relationship for a long time, so I thought he was just taking it slow.
But then I realized, Greg, after the third month, that he was getting to feel intimate with me without actually being intimate with me.
I got up the nerve to ask him if this was how it was going to continue, and he started blubbering and stammering about relationships and how scary they are and whatever.