他其实没那么喜欢你 Part 40
He’s Just Not That Into You
英语原版小说《他其实没那么喜欢你》（原名:He’s Just Not That Into You),主要讲述几对友人看似错综复杂其实很普遍的爱情故事，故事摒弃了以往美剧排列组合的方式，而是分成不同角度，去看每一段独立的爱情，最终让人去回望自己身边或者亲身经历的感情。
He's Just Not That Into You If He's Having Sex with Someone Else
There's Never Going to Be a Good Excuse for Cheating
If he cheats on you, throw the deadbeat out.
Just kidding. I know things aren't that simple.
This is a very complicated subject, I'll admit.
Some will argue, "It's just sex, what does it matter?"
Some will argue that you shouldn't throw away a meaningful relationship just because of one indiscretion.
This all may be true. But this is what I know: Whatever problems you may have been having in your relationship, they didn't merit him having sex with someone else.
Don't ask what you did wrong. Don't share the blame.
And in case he tells you that it just "happened," please remember, cheating doesn't just"happen."
It's not an accident as in, "Oops, I just slipped and fell into a sexual relationship with someone else."
It was planned and executed with the full knowledge that it could end your relationship.
Know this: If he's sleeping with someone else without your knowledge or encouragement, heis not only behaving like a man who's just not that into you, he's behaving like a man who doesn't even like you all that much.
The "He's Got No Excuse and He Knows It" Excuse
Dear Greg, I have been living with my boyfriend for a year.
I recently found out that about a month ago he slept with someone he worked with, twice. (The girl told me at a party! )
I confronted my boyfriend and he confessed.
I packed my things and moved to a friend's.
He's now calling me constantly, begging me to give him a second chance.
He says he doesn't know why he did it, but promises he'll never do it again.
He really feels bad about it. What should I do?
Dear A Month Ago, Let's see.
He slept with someone else while he was living with you, and you only found out because The girl told you about it.
Sounds like a winner. When's the wedding?
Seriously, let's talk about that special month in your home.
In that month, he had sex with someone else twice, came back, and slept in the same bed with you.
He was actively hiding this secret from you every time he looked into your eyes.
And let's remember, this gentleman didn't confess by his own volition—Skanky theHomewrecker did it for him.