好了，开个玩笑。be in one's shoes是英文中的一句俚语，指的就是“站在某人的角度考虑问题“，也就是如果你是他/你在那种情况下，你会怎么做。
1. It's easy to mock someone else—until you're in their shoes.
2. I’d leave that job immediately if I were in his shoes.
3. If I were in your shoes, I think I'd write to her rather than try to explain over the phone.
4. You need to put yourself in his shoes before saying anything mean to him.