“为什么妻子早上醒来总是很累?”妻子:你来当妈妈试试看?

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2018-10-29 19:33

Empathy goes a long way. Especially when you and your partner have newborns to take care of. However, Mattea Goff’s husband Kris couldn’t understand why she was always exhausted in the morning. After all, they’re in this together, right Making sure Kris gets it, Mattea decided to illustrate her explanation.

同理心真的非常重要,尤其是当你和你的另一半要一起照顾一个刚出生的宝宝。然而,Mattea Goff的丈夫Kris却始终不能理解,为什么妻子早上醒来总是疲惫不堪。毕竟,明明并不是妻子一人带孩子呀。于是,为了让Kris明白自己为什么会这么累,Mattea决定画一组简笔画。
“My husband is a fantastic guy, but sometimes if you haven’t lived something, you don’t understand it,“ Goff told BuzzFeed. “I’ve given [him] drawings before, but this particular set of drawings came from my lack of sleep and my desire to get my point across.“
“我有一个很好的丈夫,但是有时候,如果不是亲自经历某些事,你是不会理解的。“Mattea告诉告诉BuzzFeed:“我以前也给他画过画,但是这一组画是在我睡不好、以及迫切地希望他明白我的处境的情况下所创作的。“
Thinking there might be other moms who could benefit from showing their husbands the five-panel comic, Mattea shared it on Facebook. And she was right. As of this article, her post has already been liked by over 155K and shared by more than 205K people. “When I first gave the drawings to my husband, he definitely thought they were funny. But he’s just as surprised as I am that they’ve gotten so much attention!“
考虑到其他妈妈也可以借鉴她的画来向丈夫解释这一切,Mattea就把它分享到了自己的脸书上。果然是这样。这组漫画获得了15.5万个赞,被转发超过20.5万次。“当我第一次把这组画给我丈夫看的时候,他觉得很搞笑。不过我们俩都没想到,它居然会得到这么多关注!“
“I think these drawings really resonate with moms because the exhaustion is hard to explain to someone who hasn’t lived it,“ Goff added. “But when you’re able to create a visual with pictures, it’s something that’s easy to share when you don’t have the words.“
“我觉得妈妈们看到这些画应该会感同身受,因为这种劳累很难向没有经历过的人解释。“Mattea说道,“不过当你把它画下来,就更容易告诉人们你的感受,而不用担心找不到合适的词。“


(Mattea和丈夫Kris)


(“过去的这个周末我不知道要怎么跟Kris解释我早上醒来状态不好,可能是因为我基本没怎么睡。所以我决定坐下来喝杯咖啡,用漫画来向他解释“)


(一个美好的夜晚)


(直到两小时后...)


(喂奶还要被打)


(发誓明天一定要给宝宝剪指甲)

(可怕...又吐奶了我还得弄干净)


(还要被踢)


(冻死了也不能盖被子,因为宝宝一直出汗)


(无辜的Kris:早上好!能睡到自然醒真好!)


(幸福的一家四口)
其他妈妈们也都表示“太真实了!“


(如果我的丈夫不能理解我为什么那么累,那我真是嫁错人了。幸运的是,我们是一个很好的团队,会互相帮助)


(妈妈胸部上到处都是“小爪印“,太真实了)


(作为一个正在哺乳的妈妈...祝你好运)


(我两个孩子都是自己母乳喂的。老二比较乖,可以安睡一整晚,不过像他这种宝宝太罕见了。至于老大,我有两年都没睡好)


(别忘了,当宝宝终于睡着了,你去给他换尿布,结果他醒了,然后你又得经历一遍刚才的噩梦了哈哈哈)


(她居然有时间来画这些???真幸福。我早上完全没有时间坐下来喝杯咖啡)