英语原版小说《他其实没那么喜欢你》（原名:He’s Just Not That Into You),主要讲述几对友人看似错综复杂其实很普遍的爱情故事，故事摒弃了以往美剧排列组合的方式，而是分成不同角度，去看每一段独立的爱情，最终让人去回望自己身边或者亲身经历的感情。
The "But He's out of Town a Lot" Excuse
I've been seeing this guy for about four months.
He goes out of town a lot, so we're just doing this casual thing.
But then we'll start spending some consistent time together, and just when I get up the nerve to have a"talk" about where the relationship is going, he has to leave town again.
I feel stupid talking to him about things when he's just about to leave town.
But when he gets back, I feel stupid bringing it up when we haven't seen each other in a while.
It's hard for me to broach this subject—we have such a nice time together that I don't want to ruin it with a "relationship" talk.
Dear Time Traveler,
Here's the little secret about some guys who travel: They look forward to leaving.
They quite like having the frequent flier miles and the built-in escape hatch.
It's hard to hit a moving target.
There are ways to travel and be in a relationship, and there are ways to travel and make sure you stay out of one.
The easy way to know the difference is if the guy tells you all the time how bummed he is that he has to keep leaving you.
If he is not making a serious effort to make sure that while he's out of town you don't go out and find someone else, then I think you've just boarded the he's-just-not-into-you jet.
Buckle up. Greg
You have every right to know what's going on between you and someone you're knocking socks with.
And the more confident you are that you deserve that (and much more) , the more you'll be able to ask your big questions in a way that won't feel heavy and dramatic, I guarantee you.
It's So Simple
From this moment on, right now, as you read this, make this solemn vow about your future romantic relationships: no more murky, no more gray, no more unidentified, and no more undeclared.
And if at all possible, try to know someone as best you can before you get naked with them.