英语原版小说《他其实没那么喜欢你》（原名:He’s Just Not That Into You),主要讲述几对友人看似错综复杂其实很普遍的爱情故事，故事摒弃了以往美剧排列组合的方式，而是分成不同角度，去看每一段独立的爱情，最终让人去回望自己身边或者亲身经历的感情。
This is What It Should Look Like, by Greg
My friend Mike liked my friend Laura. After band practice he asked her out and now they're married.
My friend Russell met this girl Amy and they dated and got married.
My friend Jeff met a girl out of town and went and visited her the next weekend and never stopped visiting her until he moved in with her.
It's really that simple. It's almost always that simple.
Greg, I Get It! by Corinna, Age 35
I was dating a guy for a couple of months when it suddenly dawned on me that he didn't seem particularly excited about me.
In the past, that would have made me try harder, make excuses for it, and even confront him with it.
Instead I did a little experiment. I assumed he just wasn't that into me and I stopped calling him.
As I suspected, he never called me again!
I can't believe how much time I saved just by recognizing that I was the one doing all the work,and that I wanted more!
IF YOU DON'T BELIEVE GREG
100% of guys polled said "a fear of intimacy" has never stopped them from getting into a relationship.
One guy even remarked, "Fear of intimacy is an urban myth."
Another guy said, "That's just what we say to girls when we're just not that into them."