英语原版小说《他其实没那么喜欢你》（原名:He’s Just Not That Into You),主要讲述几对友人看似错综复杂其实很普遍的爱情故事，故事摒弃了以往美剧排列组合的方式，而是分成不同角度，去看每一段独立的爱情，最终让人去回望自己身边或者亲身经历的感情。
Dear Just Cuddling,
A month? A month? ! Are you freaking kidding me?
This should be the time when he's getting comfortable enough to bring up the subject of outfits, positions and lotions.
A month? The only thing he should be tired of is thinking of different ways to ravage you.
And after only a month, he really wouldn't be tired of that.
Now, you can get up the nerve to ask him what's going on—communication is never a bad idea.
But my guess is that you probably already have your answer.
I say start walking, and let him explain to your hot ass why he doesn't want to have sex with you.
And if he doesn't, well, you know what we'd say to that.
Ahh, here comes the big "fear of intimacy" debate.
Is there such a thing? Many, many people are in therapy for it, a lot of self-help books are dedicated to it, a lot of shitty behavior is excused because of it.
Sure, many people have been hurt in their past, and now have a fear of intimacy. But guess what? (We even took a poll about it just a few pages ago. )
If a man is really into you, nothing will stop him from being with you—including a fear of intimacy.
He may run and get his butt into therapy if there's some serious problem, but he'll never keep you in the dark.